Yes I have it all - 15+ years of fun (& g8 s3x) with the man I love, a job I like, and three fairly decent kids (hey, they're not perfect)
I agree with their reasoning. If both work together to keep the upkeep of the house they probably both will keep the upkeep of their relationship.
Hmm... but I so hate housework
If I clean house, I am to aggravated to do anything else! LOL
Well, if the house is clean and tidy that leaves time for "other things" ;-)