There I was talking with my mil and fil about s3x.
We discussed the time that she pulled him into "one of those shops" "just to look around"
Somewhere in the conversation my mil said, "I don't thank"
I didn't understand.
She said, "I'm not a thanker"
I clarified - it was a 'th' not an 's'
Then I figured it out. She doesn't say "thank you" afterwards.
I think that I am a thanker, not every time, not in any sort of dramatic way but sometimes in a playful way. But whenever I say it, I mean it every time.
Still, it's not like we have a rule or any expectation of what will be said before, during, and after.
I found her comments something to think about.
The way she said she was a NOT a thanker made me feel a little bit embarrassed to admit that I was, until I realized my s3x partner is her son and every mother wants her son to be well 'thanked' right? So I gave William his praise and told her I'm a thanker.
I have a lot to be thankful for today!!
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